You Shall Not Commit Adultery
Exodus 20:14 | Leader & Student Information

Tyler Bowles • Associate Pastor
November 11, 2026

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Week 8 Devotional
Scripture

Lesson Summary

God's seventh commandment, 'You shall not commit adultery' (Exodus 20:14), teaches us to honour marriage and the lifelong promise a husband and wife make to each other. Jesus shows that obedience also involves our thoughts and desires, not only the actions other people can see.

Josh used the picture of a garden to help students consider what they are growing in their hearts. What we repeatedly watch, listen to, and think about can shape our choices. We can practise faithfulness now by keeping our word, respecting others, choosing good influences, and making wise plans for temptation.

God's commands also show us our need for Jesus. We cannot earn forgiveness through a perfect record. We turn to Christ, confess our sin, and depend on His saving work. God's Spirit helps believers grow in love, faithfulness, and self-control. Students are encouraged to ask a parent when they encounter a word or question they do not understand.


Small Group Questions

Understanding the Passage
  1. You are not married. How can God's command to honour marriage still shape the way you treat people and keep promises now?
  2. Josh compared the heart to a garden. What is one good influence you want to give more attention to this week? What makes that difficult?
  3. Without sharing private details, what could someone do when a video, joke, or conversation begins drawing them towards something wrong?
  4. What is a simple boundary you could decide on before you face temptation? What good activity could you choose instead?
  5. How can you show respect for someone when your friends are teasing them or pressuring them to join in?
  6. Why might someone hide a wrong choice? How does knowing that Jesus forgives sinners help us be honest and ask for help?
  7. What is one change you want God's Spirit to help you make this week? Who could encourage you to follow through?
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